tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6265428284848727164.post8670809039923002165..comments2024-01-12T00:00:04.996-05:00Comments on The Paper Wait: Giraffe Stuck in the DrawerEileen Cameronhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/03147679493619958932noreply@blogger.comBlogger6125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6265428284848727164.post-2117323832716025732013-02-26T21:47:55.633-05:002013-02-26T21:47:55.633-05:00You can view the idea of a rejection as this- &quo...You can view the idea of a rejection as this- "If it doesn't kill you, it makes you stronger." Keep in mind that it takes a brave soul to even submit your work- to send your babies out into the world. You have already taken that huge first step. Some of us are still working on that one...Sharon Wildey Callehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11269545800323479789noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6265428284848727164.post-81958104827105908412013-02-26T09:06:52.199-05:002013-02-26T09:06:52.199-05:00I loved the search and rescue photo. Your humor i...I loved the search and rescue photo. Your humor is working for you. That's great! Now, the giraffee does need to be let out of the drawer. He must have an aching neck and twisted legs. I'm surprised he hasn't devoured all your tylenol. Maybe this can be the story you write while you gather your wits about you. Write the giraffe a sympathy letter and include a get out of the drawer free card or something silly. Who knows, this may be the one that brings in the big contract. There's that optimism again! Hang in there.Linda A.https://www.blogger.com/profile/16517546647672781332noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6265428284848727164.post-54254300423169908942013-02-26T08:47:42.697-05:002013-02-26T08:47:42.697-05:00P.S. Forgot to add something to my "bad rejec...P.S. Forgot to add something to my "bad rejection" paragraph: after you're done bitching and working on something else, go back to the rejected manuscript and figure out where to send it next.Gale Sypher Jacobhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01167465000672443273noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6265428284848727164.post-85148465287153822152013-02-26T02:23:41.421-05:002013-02-26T02:23:41.421-05:00Ideally I would get a manuscript right back out th...Ideally I would get a manuscript right back out there after a rejection. But rejections tend to eat away at my enthusiasm for a manuscript. So the ideal didn't always happen. Sometimes I just needed to work on something else for a while till I could see the rejected manuscript clearly again. After all, a rejection is just one person's opinion! I agree with Robin. Get your giraffe back out there! :o)Brianna Caplan Sayreshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10137299043891966903noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6265428284848727164.post-49770861985879105252013-02-25T20:18:13.354-05:002013-02-25T20:18:13.354-05:00I received the bulk of my rejections on Fridays. ...I received the bulk of my rejections on Fridays. And even one big fat one (actually several all rolled into one fat one) on my BIRTHDAY! (yes, really) I would feel the sting...then have a drink (or two), laugh with my family/friends, try my hardest to forget about it, maybe have some chocolate, or do something non-food related...as airy fairy as it sounds - you have to let yourself feel it, then just move on. Work on something new. Go to a movie. Do something entirely different for awhile. Garden. When you get rejected you have more in common with every single writer that has roamed the planet. It's part of it and while it's hard NOT to take it personally...you can't. Perseverance is the number one skill to have in this business. (patience is pretty darn important too!) Get your giraffe back out there, he can't find a home, as you said, in the drawer. And get to work on something new!!Robin Constantinehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12702857007702547325noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6265428284848727164.post-59232499426216645012013-02-25T15:40:09.014-05:002013-02-25T15:40:09.014-05:00How soon do I come back from rejection? It depends...How soon do I come back from rejection? It depends. I think there are three sorts of rejections - given here in descending order:<br />1. A "good" rejection - when the editor gives you suggestions, but she doesn't want to see it again. (Ouch, but at least you got someone's eye and you have something to think about.)<br />2. A bad rejection - when you either hear nada or get a form letter. (Double ouch, but very common these days and you have to remember your chances in this market are one in a million. Bitch for a few days, then start something new.)<br />3. The worst possible rejection - when an editor asks you to revise and you do, only to be rejected. (To me this is the most painful rejection and I dwell on it the longest.)Gale Sypher Jacobhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01167465000672443273noreply@blogger.com